Are We Confusing Modernity with Mediocrity?
As I walk through my hostel corridors, I'm often greeted by the faint smell of cigarettes and the echoes of loud music. It's alarming how these habits have become synonymous with being "modern" and "open-minded." But, of course, that's far from the truth.
The Misconception —
We've begun to associate modernity with:
1. Late-night clubbing and partying ("Party like there’s no tomorrow... until tomorrow comes 😂")
2. Substance Abuse (cigarette and clubs: the ultimate modernity checklist? 🤣")
3. Casual relationships
But is this really what it means to be modern?
The Real Meaning —
True modernity is about:
Embracing knowledge and self-growth
Exploring new skills and interests
Respecting individuality and diversity
Fostering empathy and understanding
As Maya Angelou once said,
"Do the best you can until you know better. Then, when you know better, do better."
I recall a friend who thought attending parties was the epitome of modernity ( and, of course,she was notorious for talking behind people’s backs 😜). But as I watched them struggle with anxiety and peer pressure, I realized that true strength lies in embracing one’s uniqueness.
Breaking Free —
It's time to shatter the illusion that modernity equals recklessness. Let's redefine it as:
Self-awareness and personal growth
Embracing challenges and learning from failures
Cultivating meaningful relationships
As Mahatma Gandhi said, "Be the change you wish to see in the world."
The Power of Choice —
Friends, we have the power to choose:
-Between substance and superficiality
-Between growth and stagnation
-Between true connection and fleeting pleasure
A Wake-Up Call —
Let's not confuse modernity with mediocrity. Let's strive for better.
As I have heard somewhere, "The past does not equal the future unless you live there."
Just rise above! Don’t let societal pressure dictate your path. Rise above the noise.
Now, Your Turn —
What does modernity mean to you? Share your thoughts!
Remember, true modernity is not about conforming; it's about elevating yourself and the world around you.
Let’s Redefine Modernity, Together!
